Celebrating the Life of

Thomas Ashby

July 3, 1946  —  October 18, 2024

Obituary

“He planted more than gardens — he planted patience in everyone around him.”

Thomas Ashby tended a public garden for thirty-five years and a family for longer. He rose with the birds, gave cuttings to strangers, and believed anything could grow with a little care and a lot of time. He is survived by his wife, three children, and a hillside of trees he put in the ground with his own hands.

Schedule

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Celebration of Life (In-Person)
Saturday, November 2, 2024
11:00 AM – 1:00 PM Eastern Time
Ashby Botanical Garden, Ithaca, NY

Photos

“At the lake, 1998”

SWSarah WhitfieldFamily

“The garden in spring”

TRThomas ReyesFamily

“With the grandkids”

AGAmelia GrantFamily

Condolences

“One of the kindest people I have ever known. It won't be the same without them.”

SWSarah WhitfieldNeighbour
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“They made everyone feel like family. I never once felt like a guest at their table.”

TRThomas ReyesFamily friend
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“A steady hand and a warm heart. I learned more than I ever thanked them for.”

AGAmelia GrantColleague
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“Fifty years of friendship and not one dull moment. I'll miss our Sunday calls.”

DCDavid ColeOld friend
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“They believed in me before I believed in myself. I carry that with me every day.”

PNPriya NairFormer student
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“Family gatherings will never be the same. Thank you for every story and every laugh.”

RKRobert KingCousin
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The family could use a hand fielding calls during the service week.

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