Blue Butterfly
In loving memory of

David Okafor

1955  —  2025


“Look up. Every star you can name was once a stranger to someone who took the time to learn it.” — A favourite line of David’s

David Okafor was born in Lagos in 1955, the eldest of five, in a household where curiosity was never in short supply. As a boy he would climb to the roof on clear nights and trace the constellations his grandmother named in Igbo, learning early that the same sky belongs to everyone who bothers to look up. That wonder never left him. It carried him from a physics classroom in Lagos to a telescope in Boston, and into the lives of the thousands of students he taught along the way.

After emigrating in his early thirties, David spent nearly four decades as a physics teacher, most of them at a public high school where he was famous for hauling a battered reflector telescope onto the football field so his students could see Saturn’s rings for themselves. He believed astronomy was less about equations than about perspective — that a person who has truly considered the size of the universe becomes gentler, more patient, more forgiving. He taught the stars, but what he really taught was how to marvel.

He is survived by his wife, Ngozi, their two children, four grandchildren, and the countless former students who still send him photographs of the night sky. David asked for no monument. He said the sky was monument enough — and that on any clear evening, we would know exactly where to find him.


Date

Saturday, 9 August 2025

Time

4:00 in the afternoonGathering to follow at dusk

Place

Trinity ChapelCommonwealth Ave, Boston, MA

In lieu of flowers

The David OkaforStargazing Fund for Schools

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Mr. Okafor let me stay after class every Thursday to look through his telescope. I’m an aerospace engineer now. He is the reason. I still look up and think of him.

Amara NwosuFormer student, Class of ’03

David and I taught across the hall from each other for twenty years. He had this way of making the whole universe feel like good news. The staff room is quieter and colder without him.

Robert FeldmanColleague & friend

To Ngozi and the family — David once told my son that every person is made of stardust, and that we’re simply the way the universe looks at itself. We are holding you in our thoughts.

Priya & Daniel MensahNeighbours in Brookline